I sometimes hear from wives who are finely frustrated that they are hoo band is telling his marriage and that he has ended the affair and yet, they are finding clear and distinct evidence that he is in phone contact with the other woman.
So, understandably, the wife will not come back to this afternoon after put up with a hoobody all certainly has not earned the trust back, she does not want to give him any leeway in which he can One way that she might try to try this is to block the other woman & # 39; s phone number.
I might hear a comment like: "my husband promised that he would end with things with the other woman. Call history I am thinking that I am going to contact both the home phone and the cell phone company and block her phone number. WIll this keep him from contacting her? "
I wish that you could give me a definite yes. I wish I could tell you that I could talk this simple step, then they would never be in contact again, she would stay out of your lives, and you would only have to worry about I so wish I could tell you that, but I would not truthful to you if I did.
That & # 39; s not will be more motivated to do so when he knows that the other woman can not easily contact him. I & # 39; m I will not be a deterrent because I think that it might might be be.
He could go somewhere and call her. He could call her from work so I can have a lot of tribute. They could contact him and work. They could contact him and work. They could chat on their computers. Or, he would simply go and see her if Sure, he may have to work. But, if he really wants to be in contact with her, you can bet that he will find away in the same way that that he found a way before.
I can not have leave you? Well, as someone who has done how difficult it is to work through this without another person in the picture, I can tell you that it is in your best interest to to him If you pressure him, threaten him, or follow him around, he is only going to try to get around you or resent you, at least much more of the time.
You can be asking yourself how you feel it is not always easy. You can not always easy. Deep down, he can not you easy. But you can do a couple of things to encourage him. That means that something like: "I am afraid that you are having a contact with her again." That means that we will not be able to work so our marriage right I trust that you are not and obviously you are not at that point right now. legitimate marriage with only two people in it. I trust that you will let me know when the affair is really over and she is is really out of our lives. "
If other words, if he is not what he says he is supposed to be, the question is why. By no means am I telling you to be combative or to pick a fight, but your must not you know you are watching him nearly and that you are going to catch it when he tries to lie to you.
The answer the question positively, unfortunately, I do not think that blocking her number is going to make him break off contact with her if that is not legitimately what he wants to do. That avoiding her and cutting off contact is legitimately his intention and what he is going to do.
